The Leader's Legacy: A Complete Guide to SME Succession Planning
- Kyle Brade-Waring
- Jun 12
- 10 min read
Updated: Jun 13

Mark stood in the quiet of his workshop long after everyone else had gone home. The smell of metal and machine oil was more familiar to him than his own aftershave. For thirty years, he’d built this engineering firm from nothing but a second-hand lathe and a dog-eared order book. Now, at 62, the conversations were all about the future. His future. The business's future.
He thought of his two potential successors. There was Dave, his Operations Manager, loyal and a safe pair of hands who knew the clients inside out. But did he have the fire to innovate? Then there was Chloe, a bright, ambitious engineer who had brought in fresh ideas and drive. But did she understand that a handshake and your word meant everything?
The truth, a heavy weight in his chest, was that he didn’t fully trust either of them. Not because they were bad people, but because neither of them was him. To choose one felt like a betrayal of the other, and to choose neither felt like he was failing everyone. The plan on paper was simple; the reality felt impossible.
Mark's dilemma isn't unique. For countless SME leaders, succession planning feels less like a strategic process and more like an impossible choice, a situation fraught with emotional complexity. The plans might look good on paper, but they frequently stall or fail in reality. It’s estimated that only 30% of small businesses successfully sell, leaving a staggering 70% without a successful plan. The reason is that traditional, purely strategic approaches are often insufficient because they overlook the powerful human element. This guide will walk you through the common mistakes, the hidden emotional reasons for them, and a practical way forward.
For countless SME leaders, succession planning feels less like a strategic process and more like an impossible choice, a situation fraught with emotional complexity.
Why Succession Plans Fail: The 6 Practical Errors Every Leader Makes

These feelings of paralysis often manifest as a series of common, observable errors in process and strategy. Many SME leaders will recognise these patterns within their own experiences.
Starting Far Too Late (The 'It's Not Urgent' Trap): One of the most frequent errors is treating succession planning as a task that can always be deferred. It’s seen as important, but not urgent, until a crisis—such as rapidly approaching retirement, a health issue, or an unexpected purchase offer—forces the issue. This reactive stance often leads to rushed decisions and limited options. Research with SME owners revealed that 63% of those without a plan felt it was "too early" to begin, and 45% felt "too busy" with daily operations. Ideally, this process should commence at least three to five years before an owner intends to exit the business, allowing for thoughtful preparation.
The “Mini-Me” Syndrome: Outgoing leaders often subconsciously search for a successor who is a carbon copy of themselves. They prioritise candidates who mirror their own skills and personality, particularly assuming a successor will be motivated by management (the Director motivator) and visibility (the Star motivator). However, our own data mining of over 110,000 Motivational Maps reveals that Director and Star are consistently the two lowest-ranked motivators across the board. This means a visionary, take-charge leader is statistically looking for a successor who, in all likelihood, is not driven by the same things that built the business.
Putting All Eggs in One Basket: Another common misstep is anointing a single 'heir apparent' too early in the process, without developing other potential leaders or establishing contingency plans. This approach is fraught with risk. If the chosen individual leaves the company, underperforms, or proves not to be the right fit, the business is left vulnerable. Experts consistently emphasise the need to "diversify your leadership pipeline" and highlight the risks associated with not having a "strong leadership bench".
The Silent Plan: In many SMEs, the leader may have a succession plan, but it remains a closely guarded secret. This lack of transparency is especially damaging because it fails to connect with what truly energises most people. Our data shows that the Searcher motivator—the drive for meaning and purpose—is the number one motivator by a vast margin. When a plan is silent, potential successors cannot see how their future role aligns with a meaningful purpose, which is a primary cause of disengagement.
Confusing Ownership with Management: This is a classic error where an assumption is made that an heir to ownership is automatically the most suitable person to lead. This often comes with the belief that the heir will naturally want the responsibility of management. However, with the Director motivator (the desire for control and to manage people) consistently ranking as one of the least common drivers in our data, assuming a successor is motivated by leadership is a significant and often flawed gamble. The "Fredo Effect" illustrates this pitfall vividly: inheriting a family name qualifies someone for neither competence nor motivation.
The "Sink or Swim" Handover: In this scenario, the outgoing leader departs abruptly or provides minimal guidance, expecting the successor to manage complex responsibilities without adequate preparation. This is highly risky, as shown by the high failure rate of new CEOs within their first 18 months. A lack of proper training and development for high-potential employees is a key reason why succession plans fail; assuming individuals will naturally develop the necessary competencies is a significant gamble.
These practical mistakes are rarely isolated incidents. They often interconnect, creating a cascade of problems. For example, "Starting Far Too Late" frequently precipitates a rushed process, making the "Mini-Me Syndrome" more likely as there's insufficient time for a thorough, objective assessment of diverse candidates. This haste, in turn, can lead to a "Sink or Swim Handover" because the groundwork for a smooth, supported transition hasn't been laid. If a "Silent Plan" has also been in effect, potential successors are caught off guard, further complicating an already abrupt handover. This chain reaction, originating from initial delays or unarticulated fears, significantly elevates the risk of succession failure, demonstrating that a holistic approach is necessary to break this cycle of errors.
This chain reaction, originating from initial delays or unarticulated fears, significantly elevates the risk of succession failure, demonstrating that a holistic approach is necessary to break this cycle of errors.
It's Not Business, It's Personal: The Emotions That Derail Succession

These practical errors do not occur in a vacuum. They are often the visible symptoms of deeper, intensely personal, and entirely understandable emotions that many SME leaders find difficult to acknowledge.
1. "This business is my identity. Without it, who am I?"
For many SME owners, the business is far more than a source of income; it's an extension of their identity, painstakingly built over decades. The prospect of stepping away can trigger a profound fear of irrelevance and a crisis of identity, evoking feelings of grief or the loss of identity that can make an owner feel "set adrift". For 'Sarah,' a hypothetical retail boutique owner for 40 years, the thought of selling wasn't just about financial security; it was about who she would be without 'Sarah's Emporium'. This deep personal entanglement is a powerful reason leaders delay planning.
2. "No one can care as much or do it as well as I can."
This conviction that "no one can care as much or do it as well as I can" often comes from a place of positive intent, driven by a founder's core motivators. The belief in an "irreplaceable skill set" is the hallmark of an Expert motivator, which values deep mastery and exceptionally high standards. This is often combined with a Director motivator's profound sense of responsibility, where the need for "exact methods" stems from a desire to control quality. This mindset can also be a protective measure driven by a Defender motivator, which values the security and stability that the founder believes only their constant oversight can guarantee. While these strengths built the business, their unmanaged expression can inadvertently fuel defensive behaviours like the "Mini-Me" Syndrome or a "Sink or Swim" handover.
3. "To plan for my succession is to face my own mortality."
Succession planning, by its very nature, forces an individual to contemplate the end of their active working life and, by extension, can bring thoughts of aging and mortality to the forefront. This is a profoundly uncomfortable and often subconscious barrier. Research indicates that when determining a successor, business owners often come "face-to-face with their own mortality," a harsh reality many find difficult to confront and a powerful reason for maintaining a "Silent Plan".
4. "I'll be letting people down."
SME owners often feel a profound sense of responsibility for their employees' livelihoods. The thought of choosing between loyal internal candidates, like Mark's dilemma with Dave and Chloe, or making decisions that could disappoint family members, can be a heavy burden leading to decision paralysis. This is particularly true in family businesses, which are frequently complicated by "managing family dynamics" and navigating "emotional landmines," as illustrated by the case of a Danish engineering company that nearly collapsed due to unaddressed sibling conflicts.
5. "What if they change everything and ruin it?"
This is the fear that a successor will dismantle the owner's life's work and tarnish the legacy built with such effort. This anxiety about losing control can cause leaders to inadvertently sabotage the handover process. For example, 'Raj,' the hypothetical founder of a successful software firm, so feared that his cherished culture would be replaced that he constantly second-guessed his successor. The successor, feeling untrusted and consistently undermined, eventually resigned within a year, leaving Raj's succession plan in disarray.
The unaddressed emotional needs of an exiting leader can create a powerful, albeit often subconscious, self-sabotage mechanism. This cycle creates a self-fulfilling prophecy where the owner's attempts to safeguard their legacy by retaining control inadvertently contribute to its potential jeopardy.
The "soft stuff"—emotions, identity, fear—is, in fact, the "hard stuff" in SME succession.
It becomes clear that the "soft stuff"—emotions, identity, fear—is, in fact, the "hard stuff" in SME succession. Technical plans, no matter how well-crafted, are insufficient if the psychological landscape of the key players, especially the exiting owner, is not carefully navigated.
Stop Guessing: How to Understand What Your Successor Really Wants

If succession planning is so often riddled with practical mistakes fuelled by powerful, unacknowledged emotions, how can SME leaders move forward more effectively? The answer lies in ceasing to guess what people want and, instead, beginning to truly understand what motivates them at a fundamental level. Relying on assumptions about the drivers of the exiting leader, potential successors, and even the future needs of the organisation itself is a direct path to misalignment and failure.
The answer lies in ceasing to guess what people want and, instead, beginning to truly understand what motivates them at a fundamental level.
A powerful tool for gaining this crucial understanding is Motivational Maps®. This is not another personality test; rather, it's an ISO-accredited diagnostic instrument specifically designed to make motivation visible and measurable. It provides a clear, objective language for discussing what energises individuals in the workplace. A Motivational Map "identifies the order and intensity of nine motivators at work and measures the extent to which these motivators are being met". This ability to measure not just the motivators but also current satisfaction levels is a unique and highly valuable aspect of the tool.
How Motivational Maps Turn Conflict into Clarity

Returning to Mark, the engineering firm owner, a Motivational Map could illuminate the underlying reasons for his paralysis. His hesitation might stem from a high Defender motivator (fearing instability), a high Expert motivator (fearing the loss of his unique mastery), or a high Star motivator (fearing the loss of recognition). Understanding these drivers helps Mark consciously plan his own next chapter in a way that satisfies these needs—perhaps through an advisory role—making it easier for him to let go constructively.
For his potential successors, the insights are just as critical:
Dave (The Loyal Successor): His profile might reveal a high Friend motivator. While operationally competent, the prospect of making unpopular decisions could be inherently demotivating. He might thrive as a strong second-in-command but struggle as a sole, visionary leader.
Chloe (The Ambitious Successor): She might possess high Creator or Spirit motivators, meaning she is energised by innovation and autonomy. A role focused on maintaining existing structures could feel restrictive and stifling, even if she is capable of performing it.
This objective data depersonalises the discussion. It’s not about Mark being "wrong" to feel a certain way; it’s about understanding his inherent motivational makeup. It fosters constructive dialogue and strategic alignment, moving away from emotionally charged stalemates.
The implications are profound: understanding motivations isn't just about selecting the "right" person. It's about designing the entire transition process—including the leader's departure and the successor's integration—in a way that satisfies as many key motivators as possible for everyone involved.
Aligning Your Leader, Successor, and Business for a Lasting Legacy
Successful succession in SMEs is, at its core, a profoundly human process. It demands a deep understanding of what drives the key individuals involved: the exiting leader, the potential successor, and, critically, the organisation itself as it prepares for its next chapter. Achieving an alignment of motivations among these three entities is paramount for a successful transition and sustained future success.
This requires a "Triple Alignment":
The Exiting Leader: The transition plan must do more than mark a departure; it needs to honour their legacy and address their future motivations. This might involve creating avenues for continued influence or helping them identify a new purpose beyond the business. Ignoring these needs can lead to the leader unconsciously sabotaging the process.
The Successor: For a successor to be effective and engaged, their role must align with their core motivational drivers. A mismatch is a recipe for disengagement and underperformance. This underscores the importance of not just identifying talent, but nurturing it in a way that resonates with what makes that individual thrive. Conversely, it's just as crucial to address their 'hygiene factors' by managing their lowest-scoring motivators. While focusing on these areas won't necessarily build motivation, ignoring them can create significant friction and dissatisfaction. The goal is to remove irritants—such as excessive bureaucracy or meetings without a clear purpose—that will otherwise demotivate them.
The Organisation: A business's needs evolve. The leadership required for its next chapter—be it innovation, consolidation, or cultural transformation—may be distinctly different from the past. The organisation must have a clear vision that directly informs the type of leadership and motivational profile it seeks.
Beyond the Blueprint: Why Your Successor's 'Handprint' Matters More

True succession success moves beyond a simple "blueprint" approach, where the aim is merely to find someone to fill the old leader's shoes. Instead, it embraces a "motivational handprint" philosophy. This means identifying a successor whose unique motivational energy—their "handprint"—aligns with what the organisation needs to create its desired future.
The "Mini-Me" syndrome is a classic example of the blueprint approach. The handprint philosophy, however, recognises that future requirements may differ significantly from the past. A successful transition, therefore, involves finding a successor whose motivational drives are optimally suited for the company's future strategic direction. It also requires crafting an exit for the current leader that allows them to feel their legacy is respected and will continue, perhaps in an evolved form. This reframes succession from a problem of replacement to an opportunity for organisational evolution and renewal, driven by a conscious alignment of human energy.
This reframes succession from a problem of replacement to an opportunity for organisational evolution and renewal, driven by a conscious alignment of human energy.
Your Legacy is a Journey, Not a Transaction
Planning for the future of your business is one of the most significant endeavours a leader will undertake. The stakes are exceptionally high—for your personal legacy, for your people, and for the continued viability of the enterprise itself. It is not a process to be left to chance or assumption.
The critical question extends beyond simply 'Who's next?'. It must delve deeper: 'What truly drives them?' And, equally, 'What drives us as an organisation into the future?'. By gaining a clear understanding of these fundamental motivations, SME leaders can transform a process often fraught with anxiety into a journey characterised by clarity, confidence, and shared success.
Want to uncover the hidden motivations in your leadership pipeline and build a succession plan that truly works? Let's have that conversation.
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